There are some things about the way I work with people that I have been pondering and feel are worth sharing for informational purposes in written out form.
I am an initiator, a catalyzer, a starter, a healer……I am not a maintain and keep the status quo type. If you know maintaining where you are is what you need then I fully support you but I am not your person. I am very comfortable with the fact that I am not for everyone and I am a perfect fit for those who are meant to work with me. Your life will change; growth, transformation, expansion and a deep reconnection to yourself will almost always happen if we work together. It is important that you feel into the truth for your self about being ready for that. It is ok to want to stay the same but again that is not a good fit to work with me. This is also why I do not work with people for single sessions or short term. There is a necessary time for helping you settle into what has changed that is required after transformation.
I am also really good at being there for the “next” chapter. If we work well together and get through a transformative period in life it is quite often the case that clients return to work with me when the next big change comes along. That is a right fit for the right time. We say our good-byes to a professional line of work until next time and almost always stay in touch the whole time in varying capacities. My whole life has been an expansion and cultivation of relationships.
I am not meant to be the guide for all the things or for the entire journey. I have a wide network of peers and colleagues that I am happy to refer to if their mastery is appropriate to the next chapter of your journey. I am not meant to be great at all the things, I am meant to embrace the places my greatness shines and the same place that expertise shows up in others. I have enjoyed fostering relationships in so many various areas and fields to develop the network I trust deeply to recommend people in my life to. I do not hesitate to give you information about other practitioners that I feel may be aligned. This may be at the same time I am working with you or after.
I am not looking to change the way I work and the things I have created to serve others. If you do not like the way I have outlined my programs or the structures I have set up then it is likely as simple as acknowledging I am not for you. And I believe there is someone out there who is a more aligned person for you that Ihope you go out there and find.
I am a kind and loving person but I do not value being “nice” I think it is energetically expensive, a bit performative/manipulative and therefore am a fairly blunt person. Which I think is that way I love people with the truth best. This either feels incredibly refreshing or super uncomfortable. Uncomfortable does not mean anything is wrong but you have to figure out for yourself if the discomfort of growth is for you.
I have the capacity to go into some very deep and even dark places with people. I can hold you in these places and it is likely if you are feeling the pull to work with me then you are finally ready to feel those things. I often hear people say they haven't cried in forever until they had a session with me. when its time its time. expansive space and stillness I can hold has only become more with time and practice.
I have a wide open mind and a very large capacity to hold people through challenges and difficult experiences. I also find deep purpose in creating experiences that are fun and celebratory which you may not take the time to soak up as often either. I thrive in the edges of these extremes and enjoy helping others feel into what is possible that they may not have felt before.
I love what I do now. I am so blessed to be able to work full time in a job I created and I feel purpose in as an entrepreneur.
Most of all I love watching people become more them selves. A return to wholeness of who they are and balance of all the parts that make them unique.
I watch people have ah-ha moments and connect to themselves on things they have sometimes spent a life time working on.
I watch them face the pain, trauma and fear inside of them that has held them back or weighed them down.
They find awareness an a level of consciousness that creates a rich life experience more vivid then ever.
They leave behind the habits, beliefs and behaviors that are not native to their system or no longer needed as they step in to what truly is the truth of themselves.
They connect more to their body and the human nature of themselves.
They connect more to their intuition and soul with confidence.
Every journey with a client is unique in watching what unfolds for them as I show up as me and do what it is that I do.
That is what I always wanted out of life and now I am doing it for myself to know what being aligned to my nature feels like and to take as many others as I can on the same journey to connecting to the truest version of themselves. This can be through friendship, family, just being in community together or professionally as a client or in a program I created. The possibilities are many and I hope you enjoyed being informed by me on a bit more of this.
Warmly,
Lauren
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